Private Coaching Intensive
The 4R Food Freedom Method™
RECOGNIZE | REJECT | RECLAIM | RADICALLY ACCEPT
90 Days to Become the Woman Who Trusts Herself Completely
Reclaim your energy and feel comfortable in your own skin without giving up wine or skipping cake at birthday parties.
Midlife changes everything about your relationship with food – your hormones, your stress, your body. It's time for an approach that heals from the inside out – not another set of rules.
Over 15 years of helping accomplished midlife women break free from food obsession and body shame.
Success Stories
Real women, with real transformations…
Why Every Diet Has Failed You
(And Why You're Not the Problem)
You've tried everything. Every protocol, every program, every "holistic" approach that promised to be different this time.
And maybe it worked—until stress hit, hormones shifted, emotions got triggered, or life simply happened.
Then you blamed yourself. Decided you were broken. Lacking willpower. Fundamentally flawed.
But here's what no one told you…
Every external approach—no matter how "holistic" or "intuitive" it claims to be—is still asking you to follow someone else's rules. And your body will always rebel against that eventually.
Sound familiar?
You can manage a career, raise children, run a household but feel completely out of control around food.
Constant mental chatter about what you "should" or "shouldn't" eat is stealing your mental energy.
You avoid social events, photos, and experiences because you don't feel comfortable in your body.
What used to work at 25 or 35 doesn't work anymore, and you're exhausted trying to force it.
You're watching your daughters learn that a woman's relationship with food should be complicated.
The years are passing and you know life is too short to spend it at war with your body.
You've spent thousands on programs that worked temporarily, then left you right back where you started.
Deep down, you're starting to believe maybe you're just one of those people who will never figure this out.
Willpower was never the answer.
The beliefs, nervous system patterns, and relationship with yourself drive every food choice you make.
The 4-Phase Freedom Promise Framework
A root-cause approach for midlife women who are done with dieting
Unlike diet programs that pile on more rules and wreck your relationship with food, this framework heals the beliefs and nervous system patterns that keep you stuck so you never have to diet again.
Phase 1: Recognize
Weeks 1-3
From confusion → to clarity
Metaphor: Untangling the Knot
You can’t change what you don’t see. Start by noticing, with compassion rather than judgement.
Identify Your Patterns: Uncover the food rules, body checking rituals, and beliefs about what you need to deserve love.
Understand Your Inner Critic: See how your internal dialogue judges every food choice and drives your behavior.
Clear-Eyed Awareness: Recognize the inner wisdom that resides within you.
Phase 2: Reject
Weeks 4-6
Eliminating the toxic and inflammatory beliefs
Metaphor: Reframing the stories
The focus now shifts to systematically dismantling the stories and programming that's kept you trapped. Not all at once. Not perfectly. But one rule at a time.
Reject External Rules: Practice saying "this doesn't serve me anymore" to protocols that have broken you.
Reject the toxic food rules: Learn to eat without moral judgment—no "good" foods vs "bad" foods, yet learn to choose what is right for your body.
Reject the messaging: Reframe the stories that have driven your behavior with food and your body.
Phase 3: Reclaim
Weeks 7-9
From shame → to sovereignty
Metaphor: Archaeology of Self
This is where the magic happens. Your authentic self didn't disappear—she's been buried under decades of diet culture messaging.
Body Wisdom: Reclaim your innate ability to nourish yourself without anxiety.
Take Up Space: Reclaim your right to move your body in an effort to feel joy.
Body Balance: From deficiency to sufficiency relating to sleep, gut health and hormonal balance.
Rediscover Yourself: Remember the woman you were before the world told you who you needed to be.
Phase 4: Radically
Accept
Weeks 10-12
From conditional worth → to unconditional freedom
Metaphor: Planting Your Flag
You've experienced the true meaning of transformation. Now, solidify those results so you never feel that way again.
Sustainable Freedom: Establish practices for managing triggers without restriction or numbing.
Trust Your Body: Learn to treat your body as a partner, not an enemy.
Long-Term Integration: Your nervous system relaxes, your body trusts you again, and food becomes peaceful.
"It's been two years since we worked together, and I still don't diet. I still don't count calories or track macros or weigh myself. But I'm healthier and happier than I was during all those years of strict protocols. My daughter is growing up watching a mother who has a peaceful relationship with food. That's the real transformation."
— Maria, 25+ years of dieting
Why This Program Is Different
You've been working on the wrong problem. Every diet asks you to change your behavior through willpower and discipline. But your food choices aren't driven by lack of control—they're driven by your beliefs, your nervous system's stress response, and decades of programming that taught you your body is the battlefield. We address what's actually causing the struggle.
Midlife changes everything. The metabolism and hormones you had at 30 are gone. The strategies that worked then don't work now, and trying to force them only makes things worse. You need an approach designed for where your body actually is, not where it used to be.
This is 1:1 coaching, not content consumption. You're not watching modules or following a generic plan. You're working directly with me, someone who spent 15 years in the diet industry before walking away to help women escape it. Every session is tailored to your history, your triggers, and your specific patterns with food.
Real transformation isn't fast. Twelve weeks isn't a quick fix. It's the minimum time needed to rewire beliefs you've held for 20, 30, even 40 years. To calm a nervous system that's been in fight-or-flight around food. To rebuild trust with a body you've been at war with. Anything faster is just another temporary solution.
"I finally understand why every diet failed. I was trying to control my way to freedom. But freedom comes from surrender, not control. For the first time in my adult life, I trust myself around food. And that trust has spilled over into every area of my life."
— Sarah, Executive
How It Works
Step 1
Apply for a Free Clarity Call—zero pressure, just clarity on whether this approach is right for you.
Step 2
Meet with Mindy for a Deep-Dive Assessment of your history, patterns, and goals to determine if you're a good fit.
Step 3
Begin with a 90-Minute Breakthrough Session where we map your unique relationship with food and create your personalized roadmap.
Step 4
Receive Weekly 1:1 Coaching Sessions (45 minutes) + additional support calls as needed to refine your journey in real time.
Step 5
Get Unlimited Messaging Support between sessions, personalized meal planning guidance, and access to recovery journals.
Step 6
Walk Away with Lifelong Tools to sustain your freedom so you never have to diet again and can model food peace for the people you love.
More Success Stories
"I went from weighing myself three times a day to not owning a scale. I didn't think that was possible."
— Jennifer
"I stopped making excuses to avoid social events and started traveling again. I realized I'd been hiding from my life."
— Patricia
"I realized I'd been using food restriction as a way to feel in control when everything else in my life felt chaotic. Now I have real tools for managing stress."
— Susan
Meet Mindy
Unlike other food freedom coaches, I didn't start out from a place of easy answers.
For 15 years, I waged a daily war with my body while simultaneously working as a nutritional counselor in the diet industry—teaching other women the very protocols that were destroying my life.
Because of this, I know firsthand what it's like to live in a body that doesn't feel like your own. To step on the scale four times every morning. To calculate and judge every bite. To be both the prisoner and the warden.
At 49, I lost my husband to cancer and was faced with the realities that were keeping me lost and disconnected. At 55, after years of cognitive dissonance between what I taught and what I lived, I walked away from the diet industry and went back to school.
I became a Board-Certified Integrative Health Coach (CHHC), Certified Eating Psychology Coach (CEPC), and Certified Functional Nutrition and Lifestyle Practitioner (FNLP).
Since then, I’ve made it my mission to help women to break free from diet culture and create a life where food is peaceful, their bodies are trusted, and they can model freedom for the next generation.
I'm now 70 years old, and my life has never been richer or more meaningful.
You don't have to tackle this alone. I'm here to show you the most efficient path to creating lifelong sustainable results so you can reclaim control of your body and feel truly confident in your skin.
Your Investment
12-Week
Food Freedom Recovery Program
$3,997
Payment plans available:
3 payments of $1,333 or 4 payments of $1,000
Limited to 3-5 new clients per quarter for personalized attention
READY TO BEGIN?
Your journey to food freedom starts with a single decision.
Applications are reviewed personally. If we're a good fit, you'll be invited to schedule your consultation call.
If you're reading this and feeling the pull—that's your intuition telling you it's time.
Trust it.
What’s On Your Mind?
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We are ever evolving and therefore growing. It’s never too late to release the attachment to a past that has no future, to free yourself from coping mechanisms that no longer serve, You can honor the version of yourself that needed them yet open yourself to embrace new ways of being.
And then you blamed yourself. "I just don't have enough willpower. I'm not disciplined enough. Maybe I'm just meant to struggle with this forever."
But here's what I need you to understand:
You didn't fail those programs. Those programs failed you.
Because they were all built on the same broken foundation: the belief that you need to be controlled, restricted, andFixed with a capital F.
The 4R Method™ is different—not because it's "better," but because it's asking a completely different question.
Every diet asks: "How can we get you to eat less and want less?"
This program asks: "How can we help you trust yourself again?"
Think about it this way:
If you've been trying to open a door by pushing it for 30 years, and it never opens—the problem isn't that you're not pushing hard enough.
The problem is that it's a pull door.
You've been using the wrong approach. Not because you're broken, but because you were given the wrong instructions.
This time, we're not giving you another meal plan to follow until you can't anymore.
We're teaching you to hear your own body again. To trust your own signals. To become the authority on you.
And here's the thing about trust: it doesn't fail. It doesn't run out. It doesn't require willpower.
You can't "fall off the wagon" of trusting yourself—because there is no wagon. There's just you, standing on solid ground.
Plus, you're covered by the Freedom Guarantee:
If you show up fully for these 90 days and you don't feel significantly freer around food, I'll keep coaching you at no additional cost until you do.
I'm not asking you to trust this process blindly. I'm asking you to trust it for 90 days while I hold the certainty for both of us.
You bring the willingness. I'll bring the unwavering belief in your freedom.
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Yes!! You can make significant progress that will accelerate your transformation to a relationship with food and your body that is loving and free. Will triggers be gone? totally No, but you will have gained tools, skills and a new way of thinking that will help you to manage them. Know that my program is renewable and there are maintenance and additional support options available.
Good thing this isn't that.
Here's what you're actually spending time on right now:
20+ minutes every morning deciding what to eat and whether it's "good" or "bad"
Mental energy at every single meal doing calorie math in your head
Hours each week meal planning around restriction and rules
Time in the gym as penance, not pleasure
Evening hours researching the next diet that might finally work
Emotional energy beating yourself up when you "mess up"
Mental bandwidth worrying about your body in every photo, every outfit, every social situation
Add it up. That's 15-20 hours per week spent fighting yourself.
This program gives you that time back.
Our 50-minute sessions replace the countless hours you're currently spending trying to control, fix, and manage yourself.
The daily messaging support replaces the hours you spend spiraling alone, googling "am I eating too much," or planning Monday's fresh start.
We're not adding to your life. We're subtracting the exhausting mental load you've been carrying.
And here's the beautiful part:
The women who say they "don't have time" are usually the ones who need this most.
Because "I don't have time" often means:
"I don't have time to invest in myself because I'm too busy taking care of everyone else, performing productivity, and proving my worth through busyness."
But imagine this:
Three months from now, you're not spending 20 hours a week managing food anxiety.
You're not losing sleep over what you ate today or what you'll eat tomorrow.
You're not exhausted from the constant mental negotiation.
You have space. Mental space. Emotional space. Time.
And suddenly, you have room for the things you've been putting off: the creative project, the deeper connection with your kids, the business idea, the rest you desperately need.
Freedom isn't something you add to your schedule.
It's what happens when you stop letting diet culture steal your bandwidth.
90 days. 12 sessions. The rest of your life with your brain back.
You don't have time not to do this.
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How’s that been working for you so far? It’s really hard to navigate in the dark without someone who knows her way around. I’ve been where you are! I’ve spent decades developing the strategies that will shine a light for you to come out of the darkness. I’m offering a safe and supportive space within which we’ll navigate this path together. You will build on and continue to gain wisdom from strengths that you forgot you have.
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This time will be different because it speaks to your unique needs and guides you to look at your behaviors as they relate to your genetics, your history and your health. My program is unique to you. There is no “one size fits all” approach to healing and transformation, nor does an “everything in moderation” diet bring sustainable results. I bring my own experience to you throughout. I've been where you are and can speak to the challenges you're facing. I’m curious to know if you have tried giving self-compassion and gratitude a try and put it into daily practice
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As we continue to assess and track your symptoms and how they relate to your nutrition and lifestyle, we’ll create a protocol to address and eliminate those symptoms. You’ll become empowered to make the choices that allow for the emergence of a relationship to food that is as “digestible” as it is loving and free.
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Your physical and emotional well being shouldn’t come with a price tag. The time and money you spend on your transformation isn’t an expense, it’s an investment. What is it worth to you to find freedom from a relationship to food that is holding you hostage?
This Is Your Moment
You’ve carried this for a long time. If freedom is calling, answer it now—with courage and compassion.
Apply now if you’re ready to:
Stop negotiating with food and start trusting your body
Trade perfectionism for steady, supported progress
Do the deep work with a guide who’s walked this path
Invest in the next 90 days so the next 9 years look different
No tests. No “right” answers. Just your truth.
Your application helps us both determine if the 4R Food Freedom Method™ is the right container for you—right now.
Confidential. Reviewed personally. If it’s a fit, you’ll be invited to a brief clarity call to confirm timing and next steps.